Opinion | Chinese family dinner 101: non-Chinese partners, here’s how to avoid offending the in-laws
- As the non-Chinese partner in a mixed-race relationship, how do you navigate the family dinner table? It is certainly a balancing act
So you and your beau have been dating for a while. You’ve met each other’s besties and been given the thumbs-up.
The apps have been deleted and you’ve soft-launched the relationship status in an Instagram story. There’s a set of your things at their place.
You went on your first holiday together and didn’t murder each other. You may even have said the L-word by now.
But there’s one final hurdle that will test the compatibility of your relationship: meeting and eating with the family. Oh, and the wild card? You’re Chinese, your beau is not.
“Are the White Husbands invited?” My Chinese girlfriends like to share this private joke in our WhatsApp group every time we plan to meet up.
To clarify: “White Husband”, in my eyes, is a demographic that includes White Boyfriends, White Girlfriends and any type of serious partner who is not Chinese.