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How to help a loved one with dementia enjoy the holiday season

The festive season can be confusing and noisy for those with dementia, but these expert tips will help everyone enjoy the occasion

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Christmas can be a bewildering time for people with dementia, but there are lots of things you can do, or avoid, to make it a happy occasion for them. Photo: Shutterstock
This is the 52nd instalment in a series on dementia, including the research into its causes and treatment, advice for carers, and stories of hope.
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Christmas after my mother’s dementia became apparent was a tricky affair.

When we gathered as we had in previous years – all her children, many of her grandchildren – it quickly became clear she wasn’t sure who we all were.

This caused her some distress. She wasn’t sure who was giving her presents and whom she was meant to thank.

Finding a gift for her was difficult. She could no longer read and her prized puzzles had become an exercise in frustration. An adult colouring book sent her into a fury of feeling patronised.

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I made playing cards with family photographs on them to help jog her memory.

The writer made playing cards with family photographs on, so a game of patience became one of memory for her mother. Photo: Anthea Rowan
The writer made playing cards with family photographs on, so a game of patience became one of memory for her mother. Photo: Anthea Rowan
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