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‘I could not say Mum or Dad’: adoption stories in Hong Kong from those who have been touched by it

  • November 9 is World Adoption Day. Adoptees and those who adopted share their stories and talk about the support they have had from organisations in the city
  • One Hongkonger, who entered the care system when he was four, was 15 when a US family adopted him. ‘I could not say Mum or Dad,’ he says of the first few days

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The Docherty Family at the Royal Hong Kong Yacht Club in Causeway Bay. The family are one of many in Hong Kong who have been touched by adoption. Photo: Jelly Tse

Megan Docherty has a busy extracurricular schedule: gymnastics, taekwondo, swimming lessons, art classes. Just this month she has four drum recitals.

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“At the November 27 concert I’ll be playing the timpani. It’s a big and very unusual drum with a really low sound,” says the nine-year-old.

“Lots of people will be watching and the last song of the day will be my orchestra – I’ll play an Italian symphony and Symphony Number Eight on the timpani.”

Her brother’s schedule is equally packed, and today he will be indulging in his favourite activity – football. “I also play the drums and guitar and have swimming and taekwondo lessons,” says Thomas, aged 11.

The Docherty Family (left to right): Teresa, Thomas, Megan and Mike at the Royal Hong Kong Yacht Club in Causeway Bay. Photo: Jelly Tse
The Docherty Family (left to right): Teresa, Thomas, Megan and Mike at the Royal Hong Kong Yacht Club in Causeway Bay. Photo: Jelly Tse

It is 11am on a Saturday and the pair are enjoying an alfresco family breakfast. It is obvious they have a close bond, one that is perhaps strengthened by them both being adopted.

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“My nickname is Candy because that was the name I was given at Mother’s Choice,” says Megan of the Hong Kong charity that cares for pregnant women and girls facing a crisis, and for babies and young children awaiting adoption.
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