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Software engineer Atul Subhash’s suicide sparks gender-bias debate over India’s family courts

Atul Subhash blamed his estranged wife, her family, and the judicial system for his death, alleging extortion and manipulation of the legal system

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Software engineer Atul Subash’s final message before ending his life set off a national reckoning in India over family law and gender bias. Photo: Handout
A software engineer’s final message before ending his life this week has set off a national reckoning in India over family law and gender bias, with men’s rights advocates arguing male litigants are often pushed to despair by the country’s courts in familial disputes.
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“If I win from the system, devote my mortal remains to the Ganga [Ganges River]; otherwise, in a gutter outside the court,” wrote 34-year-old Bengaluru-based software developer, Atul Subhash, whose body was found on Monday at his home in India’s technology hub.

He left behind a 24-page suicide note and a YouTube video blaming his estranged wife, her family and the Indian judicial system for pushing him to take such a drastic step.

Subhash’s family alleges he was a victim of extortion, saying his wife’s relatives demanded a one-time alimony settlement of up to 30 million rupees (US$350,000), a figure that had haunted the couple’s lengthy divorce case since 2021.

Subhash also accused his wife of preventing him from seeing their son until he fulfilled her financial demands. In a part of the suicide note addressed to his son, he expressed deep sorrow and frustration: “When I first saw you, I thought that I could give my life for you any day. But, sadly, I am giving my life because of you. I don’t feel anything about you now except a tinge of pain sometimes. Now, you just feel like a blackmail using which I will be extorted more and more.”

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Local police are investigating, while Subhash’s wife, identified as Nikita Singhania, and her immediate family are in hiding.

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