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China’s elderly want to enjoy their golden years, not raise next generation unless paid for it

  • For many younger couples in China, it is a cultural expectation that grandparents help raise their children
  • But that social obligation may be changing, as a generation of retirees looks to enjoy their lives child-free

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Many grandparents are primary caregivers for their grandchildren, but that trend may be changing. Photo: Getty Images

While grandparents worldwide often enjoy the retired life – pursuing hobbies, travelling the world and occasionally visiting their children and grandchildren – retirees in China are often stuck at home, tasked with taking care of the little ones while their sons and daughters go to work.

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For Chen Shuxiang and her husband Guan Hongsheng, who are in their late-60s with a 10-year-old grandson, they leave the bulk of the caregiving responsibilities to the child’s parents, despite living in the same city in Fuzhou in southeastern China’s Fujian province.
Their rejection of becoming primary carers stand out as it is so uncommon in China, but also because they may be pioneers of an impending social shift.

“We are happy with our life,” said the couple, who enjoy spending time editing videos, taking photos and travelling across China and the world.

Liang Zhaolu (the child) tends to his grandfather’s rice fields during weekends home from boarding school. Photo: AFP
Liang Zhaolu (the child) tends to his grandfather’s rice fields during weekends home from boarding school. Photo: AFP

They are still involved in their grandchild’s life – cooking meals and occasionally picking him up from school – but they are not primary carers.

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