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A Chinese Eat, Pray, Love: granny’s road trip gives her the freedom she’s always craved

  • Su Min has always tried to live up to societal expectations of what a woman should and shouldn’t do – but not any more
  • At the age of 56, she left home and is live-streaming her road trip around China – and hundreds of thousands of internet users are applauding her independence

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To save money, Su Min sleeps in a tent on top of her car at night. Photo: Weibo/Su Min
Mandy Zuoin Shanghai

A 56-year-old grandmother’s journey of self-discovery is being hailed as the surprise live-streaming hit of 2020 in China.

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Her journey, quintessentially a Chinese version of American author Elizabeth Gilbert’s Eat, Pray, Love, has taken centre stage in China’s growing feminist awakening. F or Su Min, though, the trip was simply a result of having had enough of her nitpicking husband of 30 years, of supporting her daughter at university and of raising her grandchildren.

It was time to be herself.

In September, Su embarked on a road trip in a white Volkswagen Polo that she bought with money she saved from working odd jobs. With no destination or return date in mind, she drove out of her home in Zhengzhou, a transport hub in central China, to take ownership of her happiness for the first time in her life.

In September, Su embarked on a road trip in a white Volkswagen Polo. Photo: Weibo/Su Min
In September, Su embarked on a road trip in a white Volkswagen Polo. Photo: Weibo/Su Min
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“When I left the toll gate of Zhengzhou, I felt free for the first time [in] my life,” Su says. She is now in Xishuangbanna, in Yunnan province, southwest China.

Just as Gilbert’s 2006 memoir has inspired women around the world, Su’s adventure – streamed live on Douyin (the Chinese version of TikTok) over the past few months – has drawn praise from women of all ages, but particularly from older housewives in China.

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