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Is your man a cheat? 10 clues he could have gone astray, from an unwilling mistress
- From sex to new habits to working out, here are 10 possible clues your man is cheating on you
- ‘Other woman’ Clare, conned into a relationship with a married man, opens up on infidelity
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Who better to let us in on the secrets of infidelity, than someone who has been the other woman? Twenty-nine-year-old Clare, who has since broken it off with her boyfriend who turned out to be married, wants to help women spot a cheat before it’s too late.
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“I never thought that I would become a mistress – I hate the idea of taking another woman’s husband. I was effectively conned into becoming the lover of a married man,” she says. “I believe men cheat because they reach a stage where they wonder if that is all there is and want to test their manhood.”
She confesses feeling guilty for being tricked into a relationship with a married father of two, who had told her his marriage was over.
“I have made a promise to myself, I will never be a mistress again, as my relationship with a married man ended very badly and left me both depressed and ill, with my self-confidence shattered,” she said. “I’m just glad I can help other women spot the warning signs.”
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Here are Clare’s clues on how to tell if your partner has another woman.
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