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Tribune News Service

Britney Spears is angry. Very, very angry.
The Woman in Me, the singer’s new memoir, is about more than just venting, of course. She offers detailed, cogent accounts of indignities that would leave anyone seething.
But Spears has clearly packed away a lot of frustration over the course of her 41 years – particularly towards the people who enabled her conservatorship, including much of her family, and the swarms of paparazzi who badgered her nonstop.
And don’t get her started on Justin Timberlake. Not right now. But soon.

The book tracks Spears’ life from childhood to the not-quite present – it ends before her brief marriage to Sam Asghari did – and it kicks off with a litany of relatives who showed signs of mental illness or alcoholism.
Spears’ past is full of givers and receivers of abuse, including her grandma Jean, who in 1966 fatally shot herself with a shotgun on the grave of the son she lost three days after he was born. Jean was only 31.
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In short, Spears didn’t have a blueprint for a normal life, and a normal life is far from the one she has led since becoming a pop phenomenon.
It’s a lot for anyone to take on – or take in. Here are seven takeaways from The Woman in Me, which went on sale last week.
1. She once had power to burn
Spears became a star with the release of “...Baby One More Time” when she was 16.
Four years later, she was playing the 2001 Super Bowl halftime show, which she calls “just one of the seemingly endless good things happening for me”.
“I landed the ‘most powerful woman’ spot on the Forbes list of most powerful celebrities – the following year I’d be number one overall,” Spears writes.

She was getting offers that included Pepsi commercials and the movie Crossroads, though the latter put her off acting: she didn’t enjoy how she disappeared into her character.
“When I think back on that time, I was truly living the dream, living my dream. My tours took me all over the world,” she says, and she was having fun and “being 19”.
She turned down a role in the movie version of Chicago, which she seems to regret. And she wishes she’d had even more fun.
“I had power back then; I wish I’d used it more thoughtfully, been more rebellious,” she says.
2. She says she never had a drinking problem. Adderall, however…
“I liked to drink, but it was never out of control,” Spears writes, even as she tells stories about drinking with her mother when she was 12 and later partying with the likes of Paris Hilton and Lindsay Lohan.
“Do you want to know my drug of choice?,” Spears asks. “The only thing I really did except for drinking? Adderall, the amphetamine that’s given to kids for ADHD. Adderall made me high, yes, but what I found far more appealing was that it gave me a few hours of feeling less depressed.
“It was the only thing that worked for me as an antidepressant, and I really felt like I needed one of those.”

Spears says she started taking Prozac in 2000 and had envelopes full of medicine handed to her while she was under the conservatorship of her father – meaning he controlled her affairs and effectively her life – but never reveals what she is or isn’t taking at present.
But she admits she smokes Virginia Slims. Smokes, present tense. Don’t tell the kids.
3. Justin Timberlake was a real jerk
JT, whom Spears met when they were both on The Mickey Mouse Club as children, was her first major love affair after they reconnected years later. He also broke her heart badly while the two were living together.
She says he cheated on her repeatedly, then broke up with her via text message, went on an infamous PR tour bashing her and wrote songs that painted her as the bad guy in their relationship.

Sure, Britney cheated on Justin once too. She made out with choreographer Wade Robson, but that was it, she says.
“[A]s much as Justin hurt me, there was a huge foundation of love, and when he left me I was devastated,” Spears writes. “When I say devastated, I mean I could barely speak for months.
“Whenever anyone asked me about him, all I could do was cry. I don’t know if I was clinically in shock, but it felt that way.”

There was also the fact that she had once been pregnant with his child – a pregnancy she terminated after he insisted they were too young to have a baby.
“I was told, ‘It might hurt a little,’” she said of her medically induced at-home miscarriage. Then she describes the cramping and agony she went through, lying on the bathroom floor as the medicine did its job. Timberlake, she writes, played guitar for her while she suffered.
Timberlake has since apologised for his behaviour, albeit before the abortion story went public last week. But he cemented for Spears the idea that the world was run by and for men, while women wound up taking the heat for their misdeeds.

4. She would have been fine on her own, guys
And then, there was the conservatorship, which came after her messy divorce from Kevin Federline and the loss of custody over their children.
“If they’d let me live my life, I know I would’ve followed my heart and come out of this the right way and worked it out,” Spears writes. “Thirteen years went by with me feeling like a shadow of myself.
“I think back now on my father and his associates having control over my body and my money for that long and it makes me feel sick.”

She compares herself to male musical artists who have gone through substance abuse or lost all their money without ever losing their freedom.
“I didn’t deserve what my family did to me,” she concludes.
5. And then there is dad
These days Spears is done with her family, it appears – especially her father, Jamie. Mother Lynne, brother Bryan and sister Jamie Lynn are targets of disdain – mixed with a few brief moments of appreciation – but dear ol’ dad gets nothing but rage.
She blames Jamie’s alcoholism for “making us so poor” during her childhood, depicting a man who she says regularly drank himself beyond coherence.

Jamie made millions off her while keeping her under his tight control for the 13 years of conservatorship, she alleges. And she says he berated her throughout – from her earliest years to the end of her conservatorship.
“You are a disgrace,” she quotes her father saying after she lost custody of her kids.
And when he became her conservator, he allegedly told her, “I’m Britney Spears now.”
6. PS: About Sam Asghari
Hesam “Sam” Asghari, Spears’ now-separated husband, seems to be her touchstone in mentions that are woven throughout the nearly 300-page book.

“Now my husband, Hesam, tells me that it’s a whole thing for beautiful girls to shave their heads,” she writes after giving her side of the story on that infamous head-shaving incident and her subsequent umbrella attack on a paparazzi’s car.
“It’s a vibe, he says – a choice not to play into ideas of conventional beauty. He tries to make me feel better about it, because he feels bad about how much it still pains me.”

After dating for five years, the pair got married in June 2022, about half a year after she undid her conservatorship. But in August this year, after the book was finished, Asghari filed for divorce from Spears.
7. And finally…
In the acknowledgements at the end of the book, she addresses her fans: “If you follow me on Instagram, you thought this book was going to be written in emojis, didn’t you?”
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She caps that comment with a string of single-rose emojis – and sincere thanks to her “collaborators”, who apparently know who they are.


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Britney Spears (centre) at a party in Los Angeles in October 2002 with Paris Hilton and Sean “P Diddy” Combs and other guests. The singer’s new book, “The Woman in Me” talks about everything from dating Justin Timberlake to her abortion and conservatorship. Photo: Getty Images

Spears with Justin Timberlake in 2001. Photo: Getty Images

Spears and Steven Tyler (left) of Aerosmith perform during the halftime show for the 2001 Super Bowl at Raymond James Stadium in Tampa, Florida. Photo: Getty Images

Spears with her family (from left) father Jamie, brother Bryan, sister Jamie-Lynn and mother Lynne, in 2003. Photo: WireImage

Britney Spears in Munich, Germany, in 1999. Photo: Picture alliance via Getty Images

The cover of “The Woman in Me”, by Britney Spears. Photo: TNS

Spears performs at the Staples Center in Los Angeles, California on December 2, 2016. Photo: AFP

Spears with her then husband Kevin Federline arrive at the premiere of “Charlie and the Chocolate Factory” at the Grauman’s Chinese Theatre in Hollywood, California, on July 10, 2005. Photo: Getty Images via AFP

Jamie Spears leaves the Los Angeles County Superior courthouse on March 10, 2008. Photo: AFP

Spears with her then boyfriend Sam Asghari at the premiere of “Once Upon a Time… in Hollywood” at the TCL Chinese Theatre in Hollywood, California on July 22, 2019. Photo: AFP

This image taken from a KABC Television broadcast shows Spears after attending a beauty salon in Los Angeles, where she reportedly cut off all her hair. Photo: AFP

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