Opinion | How running for office in UK local elections helped me, a mainland immigrant, feel accepted by British society
- Stereotypes about British people being racist persist but voters, it seems, don’t care about a candidate’s looks, accent or whether they are an immigrant
However, my interactions with the mothers of my children’s classmates have led me to believe that, in general, British people deliberately ignore my presence and don’t want to talk to me. I met other mothers every day when dropping off and picking up my children from primary school. It was not a comfortable experience; most deliberately ignored me.
Was I just being paranoid? I don’t think so. I proactively sought to engage them, testing the waters with my eyes, but there was no response. Those few mothers who were willing to interact took the initiative and waved or said hello.
Apart from those who turned a blind eye, I still remember the reaction of two mothers when I tried to be friendly and talk to them one day some 10 years ago. They acted as if they had been insulted, their faces flushed red and, while being polite, answered as if they were talking to a lesser species.