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Zhu Yuefeng, 75, stands on the balcony of her apartment at the Cherish Yearn care center facility in Shanghai as China relaxed its restrictions on how many children families can have. Photo: Reuters

China announced last week it is finally ending its controversial “one family, one child” policy at a time when the country’s economy is in its worst shape in more than a decade. The more practical question is not how many kids that Chinese parents should have, but where to get the money to raise more kids.

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I have to take the “one child” policy story very personally because I was born in 1980, the year when the birth control policy was officially implemented. Like many of my 1980s fellow Chinese, we’re the first and now also becoming the last generation of the “one child” policy.

Sometimes I wonder if only I could have a brother or sister in my family. To some extent, it has been a very long and lonely journey for me to grow up as the only child in my family. I’m not unique as I’m just one of the 1980s generation in China.

We take all the pressure alone from studying hard to get into university to finding your first job. We do have our friends but I believe my readers can understand it’s a different story compared with when you can share some little secrets with your brothers and sisters, or seek their advice about your life’s journey.

Wang Yi, 34, an office worker and mother of five-year-old Zhou Ziwei (pictured on the left playing with his cousin) said she does not want to have a second child because it takes efforts to raise her son. Photo: Reuters
Wang Yi, 34, an office worker and mother of five-year-old Zhou Ziwei (pictured on the left playing with his cousin) said she does not want to have a second child because it takes efforts to raise her son. Photo: Reuters
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Interestingly, the founding father of Communist China, chairman Mao Ze-dong, once encouraged Chinese families to have more kids as Mao believed the more people, the better to grow the Chinese economy, especially in terms of manufacturing and agriculture.

But Mao’s successors realised it was also important to control the population especially when you had the basic problem of feeding everyone.

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